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<\/a><\/p>\nIt will be overwhelming.<\/h3>\n
No matter what parenting choices you make: breastfeeding, bottle feeding, co-sleeping, sleep training, stay-at-home, go back to work…the magical mixture of new mom hormones, exhaustion, cultural pressure and self-doubt will at some point feel like too much to handle. \u00a0It happens, it’s normal, we all feel\u00a0it, every time.<\/p>\n
Nothing lasts forever.<\/h3>\n
At some point you’ll struggle with some part of your parenting journey or feel completely inadequate as a new mom. \u00a0You’ll doubt every decision you’ve ever made and will beat yourself up over it. \u00a0You’ll just want to run away from it and will dream of the day when it’s over. \u00a0And that day will come. \u00a0Eventually, every phase and hardship will pass.<\/p>\n
Nothing lasts forever.<\/h3>\n
One day you’ll look back and wonder where the time has gone. \u00a0You’ll long for those tiny little new baby snuggles. \u00a0You’ll wish your toddler would just sit still for one stinkin’ minute!\u00a0 You’ll dream of when your child might once again believe everything you tell him\/her. \u00a0It will seem like the days are flying by and they are growing and changing before your eyes.<\/p>\n
<\/h3>\nYou’ll feel so alone sometimes.<\/h3>\n
Even if you’re constantly surrounded by family members or friends are delivering daily dinners, you’ll have times when you feel 100% alone and like no one gets it.\u00a0 The burden of motherhood is one that falls completely on the mommy (imagine that!) and no matter how much help you have you may still feel like you can or should be doing everything for your baby.<\/p>\n
You need to take care of yourself.<\/h3>\n
It’s so easy to get lost in the needs of your baby.\u00a0 It’s easy to let their cries trump your needs.\u00a0 It’s easy to downplay your basic needs or even forget them altogether when you’re a new mom.\u00a0 But don’t, you need to take care of yourself.\u00a0 I’m not talking about getting regular pedicures or going to gym, I’m talking basic survival.\u00a0 Eat regularly, use the bathroom when you need to and rest when you’re tired.\u00a0 You’re no good to your baby if you’re weak, tired and miserable.<\/p>\n
You’ll doubt every decision.<\/h3>\n
You can read 1,000 parenting books and talk to your mom, sister, grandma, aunt and every mom you know and you’ll get a million different opinions and bits of advice.\u00a0 Your head will spin with wondering if you’re doing the right thing, if you’re making the right choices.\u00a0 You’ll wonder if you’re even cut out for this mommy thing at all and question how you got here in the first place.<\/p>\n
Listen to your heart (and your baby).<\/h3>\n
No one will ever know your child like you do. \u00a0You will<\/em> know exactly what your little one needs. \u00a0Don’t let others sway your decisions or make you questions your choices. \u00a0Your baby will let you know what s\/he needs if you just focus on him\/her\u00a0and forget the rest of the world.<\/p>\n Whatever feelings you’re having: exhaustion, elation, frustration, self-doubt, happiness, weepiness, a sense of overflowing love…it’s all normal and it’s all ok. \u00a0Embrace whatever feelings you’re having because each is a part of the new mom journey. \u00a0Don’t get down on the bad days and take the time to revel in the good.<\/p>\n No matter the struggles you encounter or the doubts you have as a new mom, I promise you that you’re doing a great job.\u00a0 Babies are amazingly resilient and so long as they’re fed, rested, clean and loved they will be happy.\u00a0 Your baby won’t remember if s\/he was breastfed or sleep in his\/her own crib.\u00a0 S\/he won’t care if you let him\/her cry for too long that one time or the horrible rash s\/he got when you didn’t notice his\/her diaper was dirty.\u00a0 All s\/he will know is that you gave him\/her all the love you have.<\/p>\n That’s it, love is all you need<\/strong>.\u00a0 Everything else will fall into place if your heart is in the right place.<\/p>\nIt’s ok to feel like you do.<\/h3>\n
You’re doing a great job.<\/h3>\n
Love is all you need.<\/h3>\n