I have no interest in having a hurricane<\/span> baby. Hopefully Bonnie will stay well south of us AND the baby will stay put!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Then last year came and as I stared down my due date and no baby (even though I was more than ready<\/a>!), I also watched Tropical Storm Erika beat down on Dominica and\u00a0the weather reports said\u00a0we were\u00a0next and hurricane baby fear went to a whole new level! Luckily Tropical Storm Erika also dissipated before she became a problem for baby and me but not before I wrote this post.<\/p>\n I never published it because the moment passed and it seemed a bit dramatic and unnecessary but as we sit here on the edge of another possible storm, I know there are pregnant women out there, many of whom are within the range of soon welcoming their babies and so I know these feelings are all around, even if they’re no longer my own.<\/p>\n I feel like I’ve heard it a thousand times over the past few days. \u00a0From strangers<\/a>\u00a0and from well-meaning family and friends. \u00a0“Maybe you’ll have a hurricane baby!” \u00a0“You could name her Erika!”<\/p>\n I get it, I do. \u00a0It sounds kind of exciting. \u00a0And\u00a0Oh!\u00a0<\/em>the birth story I would have! \u00a0I could twist quite a tale of over-exaggerated details and a plot line\u00a0that would make mouths drop.<\/p>\n But let’s be real for a minute: we’re talking about having a baby. \u00a0And while I am mother nature’s #1 fan when it come to birthing<\/a> and I believe wholeheartedly in the miraculous strength, power and ability of each mother’s body to bring her child into the world, that doesn’t make birth fool-proof. \u00a0There could\u00a0always<\/em> be things that are out of one’s control, that could complicate things. \u00a0Throw on top of the uncertainty of birth the wildly unpredictability of a major tropical storm…no thank you, not me!<\/p>\n I just want a peaceful birth<\/a>, at home<\/a>, with my husband and kids present. \u00a0Oh, and my midwife, too. \u00a0And that’s where storms get complicated.<\/p>\n If my baby\u00a0does<\/em> decide to come during the storm, the bad weather could keep my midwife from being able to safely get to my side. \u00a0Plus emergency medical services aren’t allowed out during certain bad conditions. \u00a0So I could be left to fend for myself and our new baby with no medical aid available. \u00a0If<\/em> s\/he did decide to come during the storm.<\/p>\n So what’s a mommy to do? \u00a0Well, the medical establishment says that because I am due on Tuesday and the storm (though weakening and shifting away from us) is due to effect us on Monday, I should probably go “sit it out” at the closest hospital with a NICU. \u00a0That all sounds very safe and dandy, but who wants to sit at a hospital just waiting when they could be at home in their comfy bed? \u00a0Who would\u00a0choose<\/em> to sit at the hospital for possibly days on end when they are perfectly healthy?<\/p>\n And what about my three other children, they certainly wouldn’t be invited to come wait with us so I would miss out on all the moments of them experiencing the storm (which already has Honeybun completely freaked out) and if the baby\u00a0did<\/em>\u00a0happen to come while we were there, my children would miss it. \u00a0It would be hours or even days before they could meet their new baby brother or sister and that is the exact opposite of why we choose homebirth<\/a>. \u00a0We want our kids to be a part of the experience<\/a> and to be there in this sweet baby’s first moments.<\/p>\n So before you think you’re being cheeky and wish me a hurricane baby, really think about what you’re saying and what that really means. \u00a0Because as far as I’m concerned, unless it gets moving, this baby is waiting out the storm inside so maybe instead you can give me the age-old advice “you better keep your legs crossed!” because that’s exactly what I’ll be doing until this storm passes!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Three out of four of my babies were born during hurricane season and each one came with the real fear\u00a0of a hurricane baby. 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