{"id":8386,"date":"2015-05-29T12:30:55","date_gmt":"2015-05-29T16:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=8386"},"modified":"2017-10-05T16:38:32","modified_gmt":"2017-10-05T20:38:32","slug":"best-books-on-birth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2015\/05\/29\/best-books-on-birth\/","title":{"rendered":"Best Books on Birth: from Preparing to Politics"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t do a lot of research or prep before Honeybun was born or read a lot of books on birth. \u00a0I did take a Hynobirthing class and felt &#8220;prepared&#8221; after that. \u00a0I believed in my body&#8217;s ability to do the job it needed to do and wasn&#8217;t worried about things going wrong, I trusted the process.<\/p>\n<p><em>Note: This post contains affiliate links and images meaning if you click any product link and make a purchase, Beyond Mommying may receive a small commission which is used for the upkeep of the website; however, it will not affect your purchasing experience in any way.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/affiliate-links\/\">Read more about our use of affiliate links<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>But after a forced induction and a total lack of labor support (read the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2013\/09\/24\/a-birth-remembered\/\">full story<\/a>), I came out of the experience angry and like I had had no control in the situation. \u00a0Hubby and I went to see a reading of a play called &#8220;Birth&#8221; which is the birth stories of many women. \u00a0After this is when I got serious about researching our\u00a0birth system, strengthening my beliefs and preparing for my next delivery (we decided to try for baby #2 a few months after we saw the play) and I began reading every book on birth I could get my hands on.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years my interest in how women birth has grown and I&#8217;ve continued to read books on birth and educate myself. Which means I&#8217;ve amassed quite a collection of books on birth from the classic <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2xWRlF1\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>What to Expect When You&#8217;re Expecting<\/em>\u00a0by Heidi Murkoff<\/a><em>\u00a0<\/em> to the original authority on natural birth,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2y2l2Go\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Childbirth without Fear\u00a0<\/em>by Grandly Dick-Read<\/a>. \u00a0I read each one\u00a0with an open mind and sucked in all the knowledge, laughed at the ridiculousness of some and cringed at the horrible way birth is presented to women in others.<\/p>\n<p>With the impending arrival of my last baby and a big move, I recently decided it was time to clear out my collection of books on birth, keeping only those that I found most useful, insightful and wonderful.<\/p>\n<h2>These are my favorite books on birth, from preparation to politics:<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8388\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1.jpg\" alt=\"SONY DSC\" width=\"1571\" height=\"1436\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1.jpg 1571w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1-300x274.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1-600x548.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1-274x250.jpg 274w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1-1024x936.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1-1000x914.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birth-books1-390x356.jpg 390w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1571px) 100vw, 1571px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">My favorites for preparing for birth:<\/h3>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2xkNiAo\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Gentle Birth Choices<\/em> by Barbara Harper, R.N.<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>Covering topics such as the medicaliztion of childbirth, dispelling myths, revolutionizing birth, midwifery, waterbirth and planning a gentle birth, this book has awesome information on all the areas of how to achieve a beautiful, natural birth. \u00a0This is the book that opened my eyes to the possibility\u00a0of waterbirth and led me to do more research.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2y2DNK4\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Our Bodies, Ourselves: Pregnancy and Birth\u00a0<\/em>by The Boston Women&#8217;s Health Book Collective<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>This book covers pregnancy, birth and postpartum so the section on birth is only a small portion, BUT I appreciate that the information is presented in a non-judgy and non-pushy very informative way. \u00a0It does not portray one way as better than any other as many books do but rather presents clear facts on labor, pain management, complications and c-sections in an unbiased way.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2yKwWCh\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>HypnoBirthing\u00a0<\/em>by Marie F. Mongan, M.Ed., M.Hy.<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>This might be the only book I read cover to cover with Honeybun. \u00a0More of guide on how to use the HypnoBirthing method for achieving a natural birth, it is well worth a read as it also covers a lot on the natural physiological process of birth and how the mommy&#8217;s body works with the baby during the process of labor and delivery.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2y2jlJa\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Your Best Birth<\/em> by Ricki Lake and Abby Epstein<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>This one is definitely skewed more towards natural birth and clearly shows the harm medical interventions can cause but is very encouraging of the mother and helping her achieve a empowered and beautiful birth experience.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2xWNgRh\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>From the Hips<\/em> by Rebecca Odes and Ceridwen Morris<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>This is another trilogy covering pregnancy, birth and postpartum. \u00a0It is a lighthearted book which shows the realities of it all with anecdotes from mothers throughout the entire experience. \u00a0And while I love it mostly for the information on pregnancy progression (according to this book, my baby is currently the size of a lobster), the birth section in very short but provides TONS of real-life quotes and experiences which help to keep perspective on all the different ways birth can feel and go.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2xYy06m\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>The Thinking Women&#8217;s Guide to a Better Birth<\/em> by Henci Goer<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>This book, again, skews toward the natural side of birth but is very comprehensive on the risks of many common interventions and tips for avoiding unnecessary interventions, preparing for birth and advocating for yourself during the process.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">On Newborns:<\/h3>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2y28Ghw\" rel=\"nofollow\"><i>Birth Day\u00a0<\/i>by Mark Sloan, M.D.<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>I&#8217;ve talked about this book before but it is awesome for learning about the way a new baby&#8217;s body and system works. \u00a0Dr. Sloan clearly describes each newborn reflex and how they stem from a place of survival. \u00a0I find it extremely fascinating!<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">On Video:<\/h3>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2xkxbTK\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>The Business of Being Born<\/em><\/a><\/h3>\n<p>If you prefer getting your knowledge from videos rather than books, definitely check out this one by Ricki Lake and Abby Epstein which looks at the current system of birth in America and all the ways it is (unfortunately) failing many women.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2xlh1Jv\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Gentle Birth Choices<\/em><\/a><\/h3>\n<p>Also definitely check out the DVD included with the\u00a0<em>Gentle Birth Choices<\/em> book which shows beautiful births and commentary from midwives and doctors.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Just for Fun:<\/h3>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2yKVuLF\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Crib Notes<\/em> by Amy Maniatis and Elizabeth Weil<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>This one is just plain fun with lots of random information and charts on things from what day of the week most babies are born to the Ancient Chinese Birth Predictor and different birthing positions.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">The Political Side:<\/h3>\n<p>I don&#8217;t recommend reading these ones if you&#8217;re pregnant with your first child as they don&#8217;t paint the prettiest picture of birth in America today.\u00a0 A lot of the stories are flat out terrifying and the facts provided make me very angry, very quickly!<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2kusFkv\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Birth\u00a0<\/em>by Tina Cassidy<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>More of a history of birth and retelling of women&#8217;s varying birth stories.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2yKLgL9\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Pushed\u00a0<\/em>by Jennifer Block<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>The darker side of birth from forced c-sections to the criminalization of midwives.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"a-row\"><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2fVr3ib\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Obstetric Myths Versus Research Realities<\/em> by Henci Goer<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>A review of the medical literature on labor and birth written in a easy to read and understand manner.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2xl3d1O\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Birth Matters<\/em> by\u00a0Ina May Gaskin and Ani Difranco<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>This book by the famous midwife, Ina May Gaskin, aims to draw light to the highly-medicalized birth system which is failing many women.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"a-row\"><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2kphyZM\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Born in the USA<\/em> by Marsden Wagner<\/a><\/h3>\n<div class=\"a-row\">An inside look at the flawed maternity system in America.<\/div>\n<h4 class=\"a-row\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Anything I missed? \u00a0What books on birth or other resources would you add to list?<\/em><\/h4>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/532269249703038383\/\">Pin it!<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/532269249703038383\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-13568 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birht-books-680x1024.png\" alt=\"My favorite books on birth including books on preparing for a natural birth and books covering the politics surrounding childbirth in the US today.\" width=\"680\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birht-books-680x1024.png 680w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birht-books-300x451.png 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birht-books-600x903.png 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birht-books-166x250.png 166w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birht-books-199x300.png 199w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birht-books-390x587.png 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/birht-books.png 703w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t do a lot of research or prep before Honeybun was born or read a lot of books on birth. \u00a0I did take a Hynobirthing class and felt &#8220;prepared&#8221; after that. \u00a0I believed in my body&#8217;s ability to do the job it needed to do and wasn&#8217;t worried about things going wrong, I trusted [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8388,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,9,388],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8386","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-baby-business","category-family-life","category-the-pregnant-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8386","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8386"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8386\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13575,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8386\/revisions\/13575"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8388"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8386"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8386"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8386"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}