{"id":8376,"date":"2015-05-28T09:14:42","date_gmt":"2015-05-28T13:14:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=8376"},"modified":"2016-10-17T13:37:33","modified_gmt":"2016-10-17T17:37:33","slug":"no-screen-time-is-our-norm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2015\/05\/28\/no-screen-time-is-our-norm\/","title":{"rendered":"No Screen Time is Our Norm"},"content":{"rendered":"

I try not to judge other parents. \u00a0My theory is “to each mommy her own” but the truth is, I’m human and there are a few things I see and hear that make me scratch my head or, yes, even judge (like car seat safety<\/a>).<\/p>\n

I recently stumbled across a few other mommy bloggers that have embarked on a “No Screen Time Challenge.” \u00a0I was instantly intrigued and eagerly started clicking through the posts. \u00a0I have to admit, though, that I was quickly disappointed by the struggle these mommies had with cutting out screen time. \u00a0And I even had to laugh a time or two as they discussed the hardship\u00a0of going to the doctor<\/a>, nursing a newborn<\/a> and dealing with tantrums<\/a> without the aid of their phones, TVs and tablets.<\/p>\n

I laugh not out of judgement but because this is\u00a0my life<\/em>. \u00a0Every day. \u00a0I made the no screen time decision when Honeybun started showing interest at a year old. \u00a0I turned off the TV during their waking hours (though this is tough to get other people who help care for my children to do). \u00a0My kids\u00a0don’t get to play on my phone or iPad whenever they want (or ever).<\/p>\n

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Honeybun uses my computer to make her eBooks<\/a> for school and my iPad to do her weekly research project. \u00a0We recently instituted a weekly movie night<\/a> but that is pretty much the only TV they get in a week as I’ve almost completely cut out TV time (dancing, cooking or travel shows) after nap which was routine for years to get us all from grumpy sleepy time to dinner. \u00a0But we don’t even really miss it (except the fact that we fell so far behind on Dancing with the Stars<\/em> that we don’t know who won and since moving will probably never get to finish this season).<\/p>\n

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We don’t throw our kids a screen (usually) when they start screaming at a restaurant. \u00a0They wait patiently (most of the time<\/a>) or if we have to, we take them out. \u00a0Most restaurants now give out paper and crayons which my kids are happy with and if we are at a place that doesn’t, my purse is always stocked with pens and plenty of unneeded receipts. \u00a0And if we do pull out the phone, it is\u00a0always<\/em> to look at pictures, never games or videos (unless it’s of them!)<\/p>\n

We made the choice to not do screen time for many reasons. \u00a0Not just because of the “research” but because my instincts told me they don’t need it. \u00a0When we moved to Dublin<\/a> and Honeybun started spending all day watching the TV that I had gotten used to having on for background noise, I said “no more!” and we haven’t looked back.<\/p>\n

So how do we survive?!?!?!?! \u00a0No, I don’t give my children my undivided attention at every moment in order to appease them and I DO still get a lot done. \u00a0We don’t spend every day out of the house just to keep from being bored. \u00a0In fact, we spend a lot more time at home than we do out.<\/p>\n

When I need to cook, clean or do other essential life tasks, my kids help me, play together or entertain themselves. \u00a0When I need to take care of something on the computer or phone, they (generally) play quietly or I wait for nap time. \u00a0They have learned that I do my blog work in the morning while they do their school work and it’s just part of our routine now.<\/p>\n

We don’t miss screen time because we’ve never had it. \u00a0It’s not our go-to fix. \u00a0Instead we go to books, blocks or outside time. \u00a0If they are really driving me crazy, we go for an impromptu craft, art or science project.<\/p>\n

\"wpid-wp-1432815452361.jpeg\"<\/a>Would a little screen time help me with being a more successful blogger or complete more housework? \u00a0Of course! \u00a0But it’s not worth it to me. \u00a0None of us are suffering without screens and I know it’s going to get harder to keep them away as they get older. \u00a0So, like juice and soda and candy<\/a>, I do as much as I can now so that they don’t get used to it and\u00a0need<\/em> it later.<\/p>\n

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