{"id":8357,"date":"2015-05-25T07:12:05","date_gmt":"2015-05-25T11:12:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=8357"},"modified":"2015-05-25T07:17:32","modified_gmt":"2015-05-25T11:17:32","slug":"the-mom-suit-is-not-for-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2015\/05\/25\/the-mom-suit-is-not-for-me\/","title":{"rendered":"The Mom Suit is Not for Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s the unofficial start of summer (unless you live in the perpetual heat of South Florida like us!) \u00a0And with summer comes swimming pools, vacationing, beaches and lakes. \u00a0And bathing suits.<\/p>\n<p>I hadn&#8217;t given much thought to the &#8220;mom suit&#8221; until about a year ago. \u00a0I know many moms are self-conscientious of their bodies and many like to cover up or feel they&#8217;re expected to. \u00a0But it never occurred tome that I was not the norm. \u00a0Until I met a few friends for a swim at the end of the school year and I showed up in my usual suit and quickly realized I was the ONLY one in a bikini.<\/p>\n<p>It didn&#8217;t both me, make me feel uncomfortable or out of place (I wore my last\u00a0one-piece bathing suits when I was about 8 and couldn&#8217;t keep them from crawling up my butt). \u00a0But it did make me wonder <i>why<\/i> I was the only one.<\/p>\n<p>Was it because I was the youngest? \u00a0Because I was in my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2014\/04\/18\/losing-it\/\">super-thin phase<\/a> of nursing Doodle? \u00a0Because I&#8217;m a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/category\/ballerina-mama\/\">dancer <\/a>and more familiar\/secure with my body?<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t answer these questions, but I can say that I don&#8217;t have any plans to jump on the mom suit band wagon any time soon! But it doesn&#8217;t mean I walk around the beach in a string bikini. \u00a0Quite the opposite in fact. \u00a0I&#8217;ve carefully selected my bathing suit collection (yes collection, I live in South Florida and we <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2013\/02\/28\/pool-time\/\">swim<\/a>\u00a0many times a week!) to suit my many needs so that I am comfortable in any situation.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-1.jpg\" alt=\"bathing suits 1\" width=\"1904\" height=\"1245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-1.jpg 1904w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-1-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-1-600x392.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-1-382x250.jpg 382w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-1-1024x669.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-1-1000x653.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1904px) 100vw, 1904px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>My secret to being comfortable in a two-piece in having many styles available that can be mixed and matched. \u00a0I usually buy pieces one at a time on clearance when I find them, keeping in mind what I already own. \u00a0And most of my tops go with at least two different bottoms and vice-versa leaving my options endless!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-4.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8358\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-4.png\" alt=\"bathing suits 4\" width=\"1835\" height=\"499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-4.png 1835w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-4-300x82.png 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-4-600x163.png 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-4-390x106.png 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-4-1024x278.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-4-1000x271.png 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1835px) 100vw, 1835px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My tops consist of both traditional bikini tops and longer &#8220;tankini&#8221; styles. \u00a0I tend to stick to the longer tops when at a public pool and go for the more traditional styles at home and when at the beach. \u00a0I also love that that tankinis help cover my ever growing belly as I&#8217;m not so keen on showing\u00a0<em>so much<\/em> skin as my pregnancies progress.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8359\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-3.jpg\" alt=\"bathing suits 3\" width=\"2239\" height=\"759\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-3.jpg 2239w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-3-300x102.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-3-600x203.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-3-390x132.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-3-1024x347.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-3-1000x338.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2239px) 100vw, 2239px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My bottoms consist of traditional bikini bottoms, boy short styles and skirt styles. \u00a0I love coverage of the skits\u00a0for the beach when I&#8217;m going to be chasing the kids and stooping down into the sand. \u00a0And the boys shorts help provide a little extra booty coverage when I&#8217;m out in public.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8361\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-2.jpg\" alt=\"bathing suits 2\" width=\"2066\" height=\"484\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-2.jpg 2066w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-2-300x70.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-2-600x141.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-2-390x91.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-2-1024x239.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/bathing-suits-2-1000x234.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2066px) 100vw, 2066px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve always felt comfortable and confident in my collection of suits and can always find something that meets my needs for both my situation and mood. \u00a0(and the best part, by buying on clearance, ALL the pieces shown here cost me less that $100!)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s the unofficial start of summer (unless you live in the perpetual heat of South Florida like us!) \u00a0And with summer comes swimming pools, vacationing, beaches and lakes. \u00a0And bathing suits. 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