{"id":7653,"date":"2015-03-20T08:34:52","date_gmt":"2015-03-20T12:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=7653"},"modified":"2015-03-20T08:38:30","modified_gmt":"2015-03-20T12:38:30","slug":"boys-will-be-boys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/20\/boys-will-be-boys\/","title":{"rendered":"Boys Will Be Boys"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nature vs. Nurture is an ancient and long-standing debate. \u00a0And despite my years working with young children and seeing the differences between boys and girls, two years ago I&#8217;m not sure I would have taken a solid stance on one side of the fence or the other. \u00a0I think I could have easily been swayed on way or the other.<\/p>\n<p>Then the world gave me this guy:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-1-month-picmonkey.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7659\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-1-month-picmonkey.png\" alt=\"d 1 month picmonkey\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1196\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-1-month-picmonkey.png 1920w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-1-month-picmonkey-300x187.png 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-1-month-picmonkey-600x374.png 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-1-month-picmonkey-390x243.png 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-1-month-picmonkey-1024x638.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-1-month-picmonkey-1000x622.png 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And not only did my life change forever, but so did my opinion on a lot of things, including nature vs. nurture.<\/p>\n<p>This little booger is ALL boy. \u00a0He is rough and tumble and loud and busy. \u00a0Some people might say as a culture, we treat boys differently than girls. \u00a0We tend to roughhouse and wrestle more with boys. \u00a0We give them trucks and trains and tools and balls and bats and action figures.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7663\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb-1024x839.jpg\" alt=\"d climb\" width=\"680\" height=\"557\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb-1024x839.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb-300x246.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb-600x492.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb-305x250.jpg 305w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb-1000x819.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb-390x320.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-climb.jpg 1608w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>But guess what? \u00a0Doodle only has a tool set and train tracks because we got them for Honeybun years ago. \u00a0And my boy has been exposed to more pink, sparkly princesses in his first 22 months that both of my girls COMBINED!<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn&#8217;t stop him from whacking his sister over the head with a sword while wearing a tutu. \u00a0Or from racing to the window\u00a0in sparkly, plastic high heels so he can scream &#8220;Tuck!&#8221; as the trash truck goes down the street.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-7662\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-tutu.jpg\" alt=\"d tutu\" width=\"263\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-tutu.jpg 849w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-tutu-300x571.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-tutu-600x1141.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-tutu-131x250.jpg 131w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-tutu-158x300.jpg 158w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-tutu-538x1024.jpg 538w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 263px) 100vw, 263px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-7661\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-viking-658x1024.jpg\" alt=\"d viking\" width=\"321\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-viking-658x1024.jpg 658w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-viking-300x467.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-viking-600x933.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-viking-161x250.jpg 161w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-viking-193x300.jpg 193w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-viking-1000x1555.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-viking.jpg 1167w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 321px) 100vw, 321px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He is ALL boy by nature. \u00a0I&#8217;ve watched him body slam his small stuffed monkey in his bed since he was 6 months old. \u00a0I have watched him jump up and down on his daddy and grandpa&#8217;s backs. \u00a0I have watched him throw anything and everything he can get his hands on.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s definitely not a matter of nature vs. nurture here, he is naturally all boy and always will be (even if he does like to sport a feathery white boa every now and then!)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-boa.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-7664\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/d-boa.jpg\" alt=\"d boa\" width=\"251\" height=\"429\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nature vs. Nurture is an ancient and long-standing debate. \u00a0And despite my years working with young children and seeing the differences between boys and girls, two years ago I&#8217;m not sure I would have taken a solid stance on one side of the fence or the other. \u00a0I think I could have easily been swayed [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7663,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7653","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-baby-business"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7653","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7653"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7653\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7667,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7653\/revisions\/7667"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7653"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7653"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7653"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}