{"id":675,"date":"2013-04-19T07:01:17","date_gmt":"2013-04-19T11:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=675"},"modified":"2013-12-19T18:17:15","modified_gmt":"2013-12-19T23:17:15","slug":"three-in-a-row","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2013\/04\/19\/three-in-a-row\/","title":{"rendered":"Three in a Row"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are parts of being a mommy of three that terrify me and parts that I know will be no big deal.\u00a0 I know I will have more than enough love to go around, though maybe not always enough time or patience.\u00a0 I know that I will be able to provide each of my children with the stimulation they need to grow and be happy, though maybe not always at the same time.\u00a0 Overall, I have to say I\u2019m more excited about having another baby in our family than I am scared.\u00a0 There are only a few aspects that really worry me.<\/p>\n<p>Most worrisome for me: going out.\u00a0 How does that work?<\/p>\n<p>Right now I have two hands, one for Honeybun\u00a0and one for Sugarplum.\u00a0 How does the baby fit into that?\u00a0 I realize at first I\u2019ll probably be wearing the baby a lot but depending on which carrier I use, I still like to have one hand on the baby.\u00a0 And if I\u2019m trying to nurse I almost always have to have a hand on the baby to keep him\/her at the proper level.\u00a0 Luckily Honeybun\u00a0is a good listener and follower of safety rules so will hold Sugarplum&#8217;s hand if she needs to but Sugarplum is not always as agreeable to this arrangement.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-676 alignright\" alt=\"SONY DSC\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618-199x300.jpg\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618-300x452.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618-600x903.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618-166x250.jpg 166w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618-680x1024.jpg 680w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618-390x587.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/DSC07618.jpg 1520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a>Also, how do you load a car with three kids?\u00a0 I remember having this same question when Sugarplum was new: who do I put in first and what do I do with the other one in the meantime?\u00a0 Right now Honeybun\u00a0can open the car door, climb in and get her car seat buckle ready by herself.\u00a0 Sugarplum can do the same except for getting the door open and sometimes she slips climbing up.\u00a0 Usually I check safety for Honeybun\u00a0(make sure there\u2019s not a car going to come in\/out of the space next to her) then instruct her to get in while I assist Sugarplum.\u00a0 Well, Honeybun\u00a0is in the middle and Sugarplum and baby will be on the sides.\u00a0 I can\u2019t put baby in until Honeybun\u00a0is in (unless I make her crawl under the baby seat!) and Sugarplum is not big enough to be trusted on the other side of the car by herself.\u00a0 So, do Sugarplum and I wait for Honeybun\u00a0to get in, put the baby in then go help Sugarplum get in or do I take the baby with me to help Sugarplum while Honeybun\u00a0does herself and then put the baby in?<\/p>\n<p>The logistics of it all is killing me!\u00a0 Luckily we have the walking thing down.\u00a0 I have my fantastic double buggy which has the 2<sup>nd<\/sup> seat that can lie flat for the baby or I can use the car seat in the back and Honeybun\u00a0always walks now.\u00a0 Maybe we\u2019ll just stop using the car altogether\u2026.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are parts of being a mommy of three that terrify me and parts that I know will be no big deal.\u00a0 I know I will have more than enough love to go around, though maybe not always enough time or patience.\u00a0 I know that I will be able to provide each of my children 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