{"id":6186,"date":"2014-10-14T21:37:26","date_gmt":"2014-10-15T01:37:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=6186"},"modified":"2014-10-15T07:46:21","modified_gmt":"2014-10-15T11:46:21","slug":"without-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2014\/10\/14\/without-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"Out Without Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I did something unusual: I went out. At night. Without the kids.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-6188\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1471-179x300.jpg\" alt=\"wpid-IMAG1471.jpg\" width=\"179\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1471-179x300.jpg 179w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1471-300x502.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1471-600x1003.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1471-150x250.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1471-612x1024.jpg 612w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1471-1000x1672.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1471.jpg 1952w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 179px) 100vw, 179px\" \/>I was invited to the <a href=\"http:\/\/blogginmamas.com\/\">Bloggin Mamas<\/a> &#8220;coming out&#8221; celebration hosted at <a href=\"http:\/\/hialeahparkcasino.com\/\">Hialeah Park<\/a>. As a member and big believer in the organization, I was excited to go. The &#8220;Pink and White Havana Night&#8221; was held in one of the gorgeous rooms in the historic clubhouse (a National Historic Landmark) not too far from the flock of the racetrack&#8217;s famous flamingos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6191 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1486-1024x612.jpg\" alt=\"wpid-IMAG1486.jpg\" width=\"449\" height=\"269\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1486-1024x612.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1486-300x179.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1486-600x359.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1486-390x233.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1486-1000x598.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 449px) 100vw, 449px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The evening was full of (adult!) conversation, networking and general schmoozing with other bloggers, PR people and local small business owners. The night was certainly a nice break from my usual routine of screaming, dinner making, dinner eating, whining, bedtime drama and lounging on the couch!<\/p>\n<p>But actually getting OUT of the house was quite a challenge, as it always is! Hubby worked from home in the afternoon so we had a large afternoon snack before I headed off to get ready. And, as usual, I didn&#8217;t leave nearly enough time to get everything done.<\/p>\n<p>I had planned to drive the 45+ minutes during rush hour with a fellow local blogger who lives close to me so was extra rushed to get ready as to not make her wait for me and us both late.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1477.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-6192\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1477-e1413373202900-757x1024.jpg\" alt=\"wpid-IMAG1477.jpg\" width=\"175\" height=\"236\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1477-e1413373202900-757x1024.jpg 757w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1477-e1413373202900-300x406.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1477-e1413373202900-600x811.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1477-e1413373202900-185x250.jpg 185w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1477-e1413373202900-222x300.jpg 222w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/wpid-IMAG1477-e1413373202900.jpg 881w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 175px) 100vw, 175px\" \/><\/a>30 minutes until I needed to leave: The girls always get excited to see me all dressed up so I invited them to help me pick out my pink and white ensemble. The secondary theme focused around the racetrack&#8217;s historic heyday in the 40s and 50s so I attempted an appropriate hairdo which caused more trouble than it was worth (the hair is what always hangs me up!) but I ended up with an ok &#8216;do.<\/p>\n<p>15 minutes until I needed to leave: makeup, which I hardly ever wear anymore and always results in gaping mouths and &#8220;you&#8217;re so pretty!&#8221; From my girls. I asked to girls to try to find me some pink or white jewelry. Big mistake! They went through everything and found nothing but did a great job of mixing everything up and pulling out stuff I didn&#8217;t need.<\/p>\n<p>10 minutes until I needed to leave: I pick out jewelry and have everything set out on the bed, ready to put. Doodle needed to nurse before i left since He would be in bed before I arrived home (he was fine with pumped milk, but I didn&#8217;t want to be overly engorged by morning!). While I nursed him, I let my fellow blogger know I was going to be late.<\/p>\n<p>Time to leave: I put on my clothes, jewelry, shoes. And it hits me, I can&#8217;t take my falling apart everyday purse! I pull out a handbag that was my Nana&#8217;s and proceed to try to stuff all my necessities inside (wallet, lipstick, bandaids, two phones&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>5 minutes after I need to leave: I make the rounds, saying good-byes and giving kisses. Doodle grabs his shoes and proceeds to tell everyone bye-bye and I tell him Mommy is going bye-bye and Doodle is staying with daddy. Chaos ensues with screaming and shoe throwing.<\/p>\n<p>10 minutes after I needed to leave: I&#8217;m sitting in the garage pulling up my fellow blogger&#8217;s address before pulling out of the garage while Doodle screams and my GPS boots up.<\/p>\n<p>Not too shabby for a night out without the kids, I&#8217;ve been much later to much more important things in my mommy life!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I did something unusual: I went out. At night. Without the kids. I was invited to the Bloggin Mamas &#8220;coming out&#8221; celebration hosted at Hialeah Park. As a member and big believer in the organization, I was excited to go. 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