{"id":2153,"date":"2013-12-06T08:59:16","date_gmt":"2013-12-06T13:59:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=2153"},"modified":"2013-12-06T08:59:16","modified_gmt":"2013-12-06T13:59:16","slug":"skipping-the-spoon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2013\/12\/06\/skipping-the-spoon\/","title":{"rendered":"Skipping the Spoon"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You often hear how second (or third) time mommies take a more laid back approach to parenting. As a mommy you learn as you go and make changes as necessary.\u00a0 I\u2019m no exception and indeed there are things I\u2019ve done differently with each child, some deliberate and some accidental.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00697.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2155 alignright\" alt=\"DSC00697\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00697-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00697-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00697-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00697-333x250.jpg 333w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00697-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00697.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0One of the perhaps biggest deliberate changes I\u2019ve made from Honeybun to Doodle is how I\u2019m approaching solids.\u00a0 With Honeybun\u00a0 I did the typical \u201cAmerican\u201d way: I went to the store and bought a bunch of jars of food and boxes of baby cereal and spent my days painstakingly mixing her meals to just the right consistency and then spent (what felt like) hours spooning the perfectly prepared goo into her mouth.\u00a0 It \u201cworked\u201d for us at the time.\u00a0 It got her fed and we all survived.<\/p>\n<p>With Sugarplum, my choice of store bought baby food was more limited. With Honeybun I was working 4 jobs and spending 1-4 hours a day in the car so store bought was the only workable option but with Sugarplum I had plenty of wintery days stuck at home to make homemade food.\u00a0 Sugarplum was a giant pain to spoon feed, a few weeks in I declared \u201cSpoon feeding Sugarplum is what I imagine feeding a lizard would be like&#8230;\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Aside from getting to spend extra time bonding with my girls, looking at their adorable faces, funny talking to them and spending valuable one on one time with them, I hated every second of spoon feeding.\u00a0 So I made a decision with Doodle:\u00a0 no spoon!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC05049.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2156 alignright\" alt=\"DSC05049\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC05049-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC05049-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC05049-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC05049-333x250.jpg 333w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC05049-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0There is a theory of baby feeding called \u201cBaby Led Weaning\u201d which focuses on letting the baby decide when an what to eat and letting them finger feed from the start.\u00a0 The idea is to let the baby be in charge of what they want instead of \u201cforce feeding\u201d them by spoon.\u00a0 Both of my girls were given puffed rice at the same time they started rice cereal (in fact Sugarplum had puffed rice the day before we started the cereal).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00271.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2154 alignright\" alt=\"SONY DSC\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00271-300x199.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00271-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00271-600x399.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00271-376x250.jpg 376w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00271-1024x680.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0While I\u2019m okay with the theory and reasoning behind Baby Led Weaning, I\u2019m doing it for more selfish reasons.\u00a0 I have two other kids that need my attention and I don\u2019t see any merit (for me or Doodle) in taking the time to sit around shoving food in his mouth.\u00a0 With the self-feeding I can sit him at the table during our regular meal time (as we have always done) and give him finger foods to nibble on while we eat.\u00a0 If I were spoon feeding I\u2019d have to do that before or after I fed myself and he would continue being restless and fussy during family meal times.\u00a0 This way he is doing what the rest of us are when we are and everyone is happier!<\/p>\n<p>Pictures: \u00a0ABOVE, Doodle having squash on Thanksgiving<\/p>\n<p>BELOW, Doodle having rice puffs<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00493.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2157 aligncenter\" alt=\"SONY DSC\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00493-300x199.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00493-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00493-600x399.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00493-376x250.jpg 376w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00493-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/DSC00493-390x259.jpg 390w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You often hear how second (or third) time mommies take a more laid back approach to parenting. As a mommy you learn as you go and make changes as necessary.\u00a0 I\u2019m no exception and indeed there are things I\u2019ve done differently with each child, some deliberate and some accidental. \u00a0One of the perhaps biggest deliberate [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2153","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-baby-business","category-family-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2153","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2153"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2153\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2161,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2153\/revisions\/2161"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2153"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2153"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2153"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}