{"id":11923,"date":"2016-11-03T14:15:12","date_gmt":"2016-11-03T18:15:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=11923"},"modified":"2016-11-03T14:15:12","modified_gmt":"2016-11-03T18:15:12","slug":"wow-mommy-old","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2016\/11\/03\/wow-mommy-old\/","title":{"rendered":"Wow, Mommy is How Old?!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Not only is today National Housewife&#8217;s Day (which <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2015\/11\/03\/national-housewifes-day\/\">I celebrated last year<\/a>), National Sandwich Day (here&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2015\/09\/30\/apple-bacon-grilled-cheese\/\">my favorite recipe<\/a>) and National Men Cook dinner Day (ha!), it&#8217;s also my birthday.<\/p>\n<p>Today I&#8217;m 33. It&#8217;s weird.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2016\/11\/03\/wow-mommy-old\/wow-mommy-is-how-old\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-11928\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-11928\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"wow-mommy-is-how-old\" width=\"806\" height=\"806\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old-250x250.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old-390x390.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old-115x115.jpg 115w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/wow-mommy-is-how-old.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 806px) 100vw, 806px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s something about the double digits that kind of freaks me out in a way that hasn&#8217;t happened before.<\/p>\n<p>30 kinda sucked but mostly because <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2013\/11\/04\/pump-it-up\/\">it wasn&#8217;t a big deal to anyone else<\/a> but 31 and 32 just slipped by, another day in the life of a busy mommy. And I think that&#8217;s why this year feels different.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been a hard past few months. Trying to juggle everything in my basket (I upgraded from a plate long ago!) feels overwhelming on my best days and completely unbearable on my worst.<\/p>\n<p>And now I&#8217;m 33, on the slippery down-slope to &#8220;advanced maternal age&#8221; which totally shouldn&#8217;t matter since <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2016\/02\/22\/last-baby-blues\/\">my baby having days are DONE<\/a>, but it still feels kind of sad and scary.<\/p>\n<p>I remember watching shows like <em>The Real World<\/em> when I was in college and thinking about how much older the people were than I was (a few years seemed like a lot back then). And now I see shows like that and feel like I&#8217;m still that age. Except I have four kids and I have to remind myself that I&#8217;m more than just a few years older them!<\/p>\n<p>Aging is weird.<\/p>\n<p>But the good news is even though I may be getting older, so are my kids. And while sometimes <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2016\/09\/04\/will-you-always-be-my-baby\/\">that makes me overwhelmingly sad<\/a>, it also means they&#8217;re becoming more independent and helpful (when they want to be.)<\/p>\n<p>Doodle screamed &#8220;Happy Birthday!&#8221; to me as soon as he saw me this morning and then made me birthday toast (with a nice thick layer of cinnamon sugar!)<a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2016\/11\/03\/wow-mommy-old\/doodle-toast\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-11925\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-11925\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/doodle-toast-1024x876.png\" alt=\"doodle-toast\" width=\"806\" height=\"690\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/doodle-toast-1024x876.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/doodle-toast-300x257.png 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/doodle-toast-600x513.png 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/doodle-toast-292x250.png 292w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/doodle-toast-390x334.png 390w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/doodle-toast.png 1038w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 806px) 100vw, 806px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And the girls have been working on presents for weeks.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2016\/11\/03\/wow-mommy-old\/bday-present\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-11926\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-11926\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/bday-present.png\" alt=\"bday-present\" width=\"925\" height=\"882\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/bday-present.png 925w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/bday-present-300x286.png 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/bday-present-600x572.png 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/bday-present-262x250.png 262w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/bday-present-390x372.png 390w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 925px) 100vw, 925px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I guess that&#8217;s the one perk of growing older: having more people around to love on me every day of the year.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not only is today National Housewife&#8217;s Day (which I celebrated last year), National Sandwich Day (here&#8217;s my favorite recipe) and National Men Cook dinner Day (ha!), it&#8217;s also my birthday. Today I&#8217;m 33. It&#8217;s weird. There&#8217;s something about the double digits that kind of freaks me out in a way that hasn&#8217;t happened before. 30 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11927,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-a-mommys-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11923"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11923\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11930,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11923\/revisions\/11930"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11927"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}