{"id":1188,"date":"2013-08-07T10:03:15","date_gmt":"2013-08-07T14:03:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/?p=1188"},"modified":"2014-04-15T11:03:09","modified_gmt":"2014-04-15T15:03:09","slug":"i-am-a-stay-at-home-mommy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/2013\/08\/07\/i-am-a-stay-at-home-mommy\/","title":{"rendered":"I am a Stay at Home Mommy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/DSC00524.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-3976\" alt=\"SONY DSC\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/DSC00524-300x199.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/DSC00524-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/DSC00524-600x399.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/DSC00524-376x250.jpg 376w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/DSC00524-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/DSC00524-1000x664.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/DSC00524-390x259.jpg 390w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>I am a stay at home mommy.\u00a0 That doesn\u2019t mean I don\u2019t work.\u00a0 In fact, I work twice as hard as any other job I\u2019ve ever had only I don\u2019t get a paycheck.\u00a0 Instead I get paid with kisses, hugs, \u201cI Love You\u201ds, \u201cI Hate You\u201ds, smacks and tears.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m lazy or useless.\u00a0 It means I sacrifice myself and my own goals every day for the happiness and wellbeing of my family.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean my family is always happy or that we are \u201cwell off\u201d.\u00a0 It means I struggle every day with myself and within my marriage over the choice of whether or not to not provide my family with an income.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m worthless.\u00a0 It means I\u2019m priceless and that we as a family value my time with our children more than we would a few extra bucks each month.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean I value every second I get to spend with my children.\u00a0 It means I value being able to shape their character and guide their moral compass while they are small.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean I do everything right or that I\u2019m a perfect role model.\u00a0 It means I\u2019m human and I show my children how to make mistakes and learn from them.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean I know everything.\u00a0 It means I know when to take a break, walk away and ask for help.<\/p>\n<p>I am a stay at home mommy and all that means is that I love my children with all my heart and have chosen to give them everything I have day in and day out.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t get vacation time, sick time, personal days, coffee breaks, health benefits or even a lunch break but I work harder than I ever have in my life because no job I have ever done has been more important.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am a stay at home mommy.\u00a0 That doesn\u2019t mean I don\u2019t work.\u00a0 In fact, I work twice as hard as any other job I\u2019ve ever had only I don\u2019t get a paycheck.\u00a0 Instead I get paid with kisses, hugs, \u201cI Love You\u201ds, \u201cI Hate You\u201ds, smacks and tears. It doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m lazy or [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1188","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-a-mommys-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1188","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1188"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1188\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3978,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1188\/revisions\/3978"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beyondmommying.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}